This is my atheist way.
Why concern yourself with imaginary beings. If you want to feel good about yourself, live a good life. You don’t need a church or congregation to affirm you are a good person. That’s just superficial. If you want to live a good life, treat human beings the way you want to be treated. Not praise some form of god and treat people badly.
People are real. Your god—whoever it is—is not.